Rules for dating older guys
If you're looking sharp, on the other hand, people see the gray hairs and the good clothing and automatically think of leadership, wisdom, and maturity.Think about Hugh Hefner in his old age — he makes sure to wear clothes that expect respect, and everyone from the journalists to the Playboy Bunnies buys into it.Here’s what they said, followed by my thoughts on how they might overcome these dating problems and attract their best relationship. The other B, the brain, is just as important, especially as you’re getting to know a woman. Anyone who’s looking for a true connection is more likely to find it with someone closer to their age. ◊♦◊ People in big cities say it’s hard to meet anyone.In terms of attraction, when you connect deeply at this level, attraction can grow. Ladies, you can’t do anything about the men who want a midlife-crisis-Barbie-Doll. ◊♦◊ Guys, if you’re comparing all the women you date to your ex, or you’re still blaming her for your problems, please get therapy and work this stuff out. Look beyond degrees and discover whether the person you’re dating has character and integrity. People in remote cities say they have no one to date.
Styles that play off the insouciant look of youth — tousled hair, untucked shirts, undone shirt buttons, and so on — don't wear well on an older man.
This isn't quite a menswear issue, but it sort of falls under the category of accessories, and it's important: make sure you've got a good smartphone, and that people see you using it.
Other small consumer electronics like tablets are good, too — the point is to make sure people see you with the same access to the digital world that they have.
Don't be afraid to change brand loyalties as you age, especially once you hit the point where your body is changing in size and posture.
Things that fit well when you were younger may stop working as you age.