Keep dating though no chemistry
We discussed moving in together when my lease is up in October, but now I know he’s not He feels really strongly about living with me and equates it to marriage.
He said he’s not worried, that if we move in together, he’s sure we’ll stay together, like it’s a forever thing.
Game, set, match.”These days, everyone want to know: “What’s in it for me???
”She advocates making a list of what you’re offering a potential partner.
He’s been working on it for more than 2 years so I don’t know if that’s also a factor in why he’s reluctant to move forward.
We almost never fight, but when we do it’s always about the bigger issue: our future together. I’ve told him that I’ll wait and believe he’ll be worth it.
On the other hand, I really like seeing my FWB/former sometimes-OKC date naked, but we lack the kind of conversational/"he just gets me" chemistry that makes me want to hang out with someone a lot fully clothed.
Also, I kind of get the impression they wouldn't feel proud showing me off to their friends because that is a thing.
Do you consider what you have to offer your dates, or merely what your dates are offering YOU?
Read the post here and share your insights in the comments. I have female friends that have these long lists of requirements for a man.
He’s never even considered giving a girl a key to his apartment!
But when he moved this past July, he let me decorate/organize his kitchen which he said was big for him because he likes to be in control of that.