Is four months of dating a long time
"I think figuring out when you’re ready is a matter of being really clear with where you are in the process.
I found that a lot of guys I dated were ready to settle down really quickly, so I had to start making it clear on my online profile that I was just casually dating at first.
Concern about STDs and unwanted pregnancies can help create sexual boundaries, believes Mc Clary.So, too, does an up-front conversation about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)."The risks of STDS have got to be discussed and prevented from spreading," Allen tells Web MD.'" When directing her advice on dating rules to a male audience, Mc Clary puts things a little differently."Make sure your brain, heart, and penis are in conjunction -- they should all be in a straight line before you have sex," she says.