How to end a dating relationship
Now, I know what you're thinking: Do I absolutely have to do this in person?
So, be sure to mentally prepare yourself for their hurt and confusion. This is important because you really don't want to linger and drag things out.
The other scenario in which a text or call is better is any time you feel that doing it in person would be unsafe for you. Nothing is going to make giving someone the axe a comfortable experience, but having a home turf advantage can go a long way toward setting you at ease, so think carefully before you pick a place to meet.
Here's what you want in a breakup venue: Somewhere relatively crowded with a quick turnaround time. Let me tell you, there is no wait longer than waiting for the server to reappear with the check after you've told someone, “It's not you, it's me." And definitely don't go to either of your houses — that's like break up quicksand. You've picked your locale, you've set up the time to meet, you've ordered your coffee/cocktail, and now they are starring at you expectantly. But how do you let them down as gracefully as possible?
The etiquette of ending such a pairing can be a difficult to figure out.
Though your change of heart may still come as a surprise to your partner, your knowing how to end the relationship can ease any sour feelings.