He just not that into you rules of dating
We all have 24 hours in a day, but there is never ever a reason he can’t call you, or even, in 2014, text you. Maybe he has meetings from 9-5, goes to the gym, walks the dog and passes out. "But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring.
But, while waiting in line at Starbucks, or even on the toilet (don’t tell me you’ve never made toilet time a multitasking experience), he could shoot you a text to say “hey, I’m super busy, but I’ll call you later when I take the dog out,” or “Hope your week is going well. You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds.
You’ll be too busy being adored." This was obviously written before the advent of visual voicemail, but the sentiment remains the same.
So many of us have been the woman described here, smitten and salivating. There are a lot of men who are attracted to wacky women as a type.
Now in bite-size mantras, the abridged empathetic wit and wisdom of the number one New York Times bestseller He's Just Not That Into You will recharge and inspire your dating outlook one wake-up call at a time.
An important lesson: if a guy wants to talk to you, then he will. As Gigi points out, "All my friends used to tell me about how things might work out with these dipsticks because they knew someone, who knew someone, who dated a dipstick just like mine.So it would be insane not to put yourself out there a little bit. They need to make sure he was really as cute as they believed he was at the time. We want to feel like we are the most important thing in the world.So, sometimes cyber-stalking is not the greatest because you can be sorely disappointed. There are so many social platforms that people use to showcase their lives -- it makes it hard to not look. I have taken that walk of shame right to Bucknell's 7th Street Cafe, grabbed a Snickers milkshake with extra caramel, called my friends to meet me and slurped that thing down. I think heartache does not help the "Freshman-15."But at the end of the day, we still want that magical ending. And I learned that while not everything goes the way we planned, every decision and heartbreak and stupid boy, will lead us to the one we are supposed to be with: our exception.It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call.Remember men are never too busy to get what they want." This is so true. The most important takeaway is “remember, men are never to busy to get what they want.” Men always find the time to play in their dodge ball league or grab drinks with their bros, but if he’s not finding the time for you, then he’s just not that into you.