Dating several men
By meeting different men and going out with them simultaneously, I can consciously determine how they match up against each other, compare their strengths and weaknesses, and eliminate the ones who are wrong for me, which will ultimately lead me to the right guy.
Time is of the essence and I don’t want to waste it.
Great, now I'm just dating one person like a commoner.
Even if I double up on something, I can just pretend my phone sent the text twice. Great, now I've met another person who knows I'm dating this person and I have to spend my dates with other people looking for that person like they're a spy who could cause my undoing.
OK, I think I'm just gonna copy/paste text all three of them as much as possible. What if their roommate/friend you met sees you on a date with someone else? When you tell a story a bunch of times because you can't remember which one you already told it to.
I have a better chance of finding a long-term partner.
In the long-run, I’d like to find a partner who I can settle down with and start a life together, but that’s not going to happen unless I multi-date.