Dating is dead
According to 2013 data from the University of Virginia National Marriage Project, the average age of first marriage is 27 for women and 29 for men — a huge increase from 1970, when the median ages were 20 and 23, respectively. The numbers also expose our lack of interest in cohabitation.According to data released by Gallup, while just 16% of people between the ages of 18 and 29 were married in 2014, even fewer — 14% — were living with a partner.Or they met each other while living in different parts of the country and got to know each other via Facebook or Gchat before committing to full-on romances. " Yes, there were men and women who bemoaned the death of dating.Instead of going on explicit dates, they had tested the romantic waters, moved in and out of gray areas, and used technology to explore the various aspects of their connection before putting labels or expectations on their relationship. They yearned for the straightforward clarity of an earlier era where gender roles were obvious and technology didn't play such a central role.
My mission was to figure out what connection, romance and love actually looks like in today's day and age.
"It's kind of cliché, but it's also so easy to date people in the city," Sarah*, a 26-year-old media assistant, told.
"It's like sex and attention is a commodity."She's not wrong.
That means a whopping 64% of millennials were single and living alone, a dramatically larger number than the 52% reported in 2004. Part of our avoidance is because, as we love to tell each other, we're busy.
"Being in a committed relationship seems like so much time, work and energy than just spending time with someone I like without a lot of pressure," Casey*, 25, who has been in three noncommitted relationships, told .