Dating good or bad
Chemistry is very important, so are “butterflies”, but so is compatibility.
So what makes a good date and what makes a bad date? How do we really know that we want to see someone again? Some of the best dates I’ve been on were simple and was all about talking and sharing.
In order to be an expert at speed seduction, you need to be able to understand (at least from a superficial level) who you are going to try to seduce.
Speed dating puts you into a situation where you have 3-5 minutes to size up your potential mate, figure a way to connect with that person and most importantly make yourself memorable enough that by the end of the evening that another meeting would be a good idea.
It’s not about the outcome, which comes naturally on its own.Short answer: Speed dating makes a mockery out of real dating.Long answer: In order to be successful in speed dating, you need to be an expert at speed seduction.In general, people have extremely lousy memories and don't have time to scrawl down notes on a piece of paper about a person and their interests.Because of that, you are relying on flawed data to make a very important decision - namely who do you want to spend your time with -- either temporarily or even permanently (aka marriage).