Dating getting past second base
It then becomes important to that person that he or she does what can be done to make a good impression on that other person. With that in mind, what should the second or third date look like?
What to do and where to go should not be chosen simply on the basis of someone feeling most comfortable in those settings.
Of course, what strikes one person as interesting may not seem so to someone else.
I think it is reasonable to try to determine what is interesting to the other person, but it is not reasonable to submerge one’s own interests entirely.
If they come to know each other and grow to like each other better over time, they may begin to care for each other in a serious way.It is not sensible to pretend an interest in professional sports, for instance, or medieval art, since keeping up that pretense for any length of time would become onerous and unworkable. In fact, I think that is one aspect of doing something interesting during this very early period in a relationship.It should be just a little novel to the other person, and, perhaps, to both people.The places where they happen to meet are just background.But it is desirable to have an interesting background.