Dating a reclusive person dating a sagittarius man
I personally am single by choice — as in being single because I want to be single and want to spend more time with myself or that I don’t want to commit. There are really a lot of advantages to it, I have to admit.I am single because despite all my efforts I haven’t yet found the person who I would want to be in a relationship with. It feels like I am losing a battle against myself, against time. I know that it’s part of life, but I am the kind of person who just likes to win. I am free to do whatever I want, I have the whole bed for myself, I don’t need to schedule my days around anyone else’s schedule — I could write a whole listicle about it, just to prove how much I know that it has advantages.What about last week when work was nuts and I just needed someone to sit and have a pint with; you remember, don’t you? The truth is, I’ll always be here for you, I will always love you — but it still hurts when a new bed-mate turns you into a missing person. It might be that we are still recovering from heartbreak or trauma. Rationally thinking I know how to reframe it, I know what the right aspect would be.When Boyfriend and I started dating I made a conscious effort to stay in touch with all of my friends; as a gal with a tumultuous relationship with her family my friends are literally the most important people in my life.My friends keep me sane, they are my brunch buddies, they are my sounding board, they are brilliant, they are my happy place and they are the people who will be there for me if Boyfriend ever leaves me.
One day you might break up, I hope you don’t, but you might, and then what happens?So when we got together I decided I wouldn’t be the girl who gets a boyfriend and promptly disappears from existence.It isn’t easy to be a good friend, a good girlfriend, a good pet parent and keep it together at work but it’s doable, even if it’s a little stressful at times.I initiate every outing and activity with a hit-or-miss success rate.I never know if he will say yes to my family invitations.