Am i dating a dork
That is probably not the best way to say it, but it’s close.I am taking the time to know her before I know her any other way. This weekend will be our four and four — four months talking, four weeks dating.Once you sign up, select as many of your interests as you want as well as those you want your ideal match to have.It’s 100% free to do so — plus, after you see someone who catches your eye, send them a virtual wink, add them to your Favorites list, and more.If I am only going to be seeing her and her alone, then I want our relationship to be more of a commitment than a few hours of snuggles on a Saturday night. I decided to tell her what my evening looks like — workout inside on my bike, paperwork, then chill.
So I made sure that I had my cell phone with me as I started my ride, stopped to take pictures at one of my favorite spots along the trail. Here’s the thing — it is starting to look like the only time that she is going to be able to see me is on Saturday nights.
I wanted her to know that I am thinking of her even while I am out doing my own thing, let her know that somehow she is a part of it. That can be a good thing if independence is a big need for me.
Independence, time on my own, is something that I need.
When I want (need) to ride, it’s good to be able to ride without thinking about the time I might be taking from someone else. Her daughter has two pit bulls that also live with her.
I know what I am going to be doing Saturday nights. Deborah’s 85 year old mother requires daily attention. Of course, what man wants it only once a week, even if “it” is kisses and snuggles only? This whole dating thing is more difficult than the whole marriage thing (wait, no, no, no it’s not yet).