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Find a woman who is sterile, done with her childbearing, or doesn’t want kids.Don’t put mothers down because you are that much of a narcissist. Take it easy here, you need to grow up and quit with the immature insults.It is about putting the relationship, which hopefully will grow into a marriage before the children, or at least giving it equal status.There is a difference between neglecting one’s children and making the primary relationship in a home between a mother and her children instead being between her and her mate.For one, my child has been in my life for, let’s say, two years.
What he/she’s looking for: Requiring too much or too little are both red flags. If the person really doesn’t care, they’re probably looking for a “date,” not a relationship, or he or she may be looking to scam you. When I’ve dated women with children, you can’t believe some of the things parents have called me. I used to date a loser who “worshiped” his supposed ex. Thank God I dumped the POS and now I’m dating a decent guy!
Also avoid people that disclose too much, whether it’s a recent staph infection, bankruptcy or bad breakup.
And Mc Dermott recommends steering clear of people who don’t have kids but use undue space in their profile soliciting information about the age and sex of your children.
These men respect that children are important, but they “next” any women who writes “my children come first” in her profile because they have already experienced what is feels like to be a secondary relationship.
That is why they are divorced most of the time (most divorced men sure as heck are not going to endure that situation with another man’s children). What he was referring to was when someone goes OUT OF THEIR WAY to put that phrase, ‘my kids come first’, in a profile or write it during a conversation (how does that even come up in conversation???